Thoughts on Finding Your Unique Writing Voice

During a recent shopping trip in search of the perfect pair of jeans for my body type, I was reminded of voice as it pertains to writing. Let me explain. As I perused myriad racks of hanging jeans, not entirely sure what cut, style, and wash of jeans would look good on me, I was amazed at the large selection of jeans in the trendy store. There were skinny jeans, boyfriend jeans, bootcut, flared legs, low riders, ultra low riders, jeans with Lycra and Spandex, stone-washed, black, white, dark blue denin, acid-washed, old fashioned Levis, slim and curvy styles, and jeans with back pockets, no pockets, and distressed jeans with holes or the shredded look, which I loved as a teenager of the 1970’s. The softer the jean the better, because invariably the soft fabric frayed enough to create a hole or two in the denim, which was perfection to me as a teen.

After spending the better part of an hour in the dressing room with a lovely and patient jeans fitter (who knew her job existed?), who kindly fetched me different sizes, cuts, and new styles, voila! I found the perfect fit for my 5 foot, curvy, and smallish-waisted body. I was overjoyed. And very glad I wasn’t in the market for a new bathing suit or bra that day because finding the right pair of jeans was enough hell for one day. I’d found my perfect jeans–a pair of low riders with flared leg, a bit of Spandex for give, and two embroidered back pockets.

I write only because / There is a voice within me / That will not be still.
–Sylvia Plath

Finding one’s voice in writing is similar to shopping for jeans–it’s a struggle for most writers. New writers might find it necessary to try on a few voices for size while searching for their unique writing voice, and each person has a unique writing voices. There’s no one-size-fits-all in jeans, and the same holds true for writers and readers. We like what we like, and we write and read what resonates with us. Some write what they know or are interested in learning about, and others venture outside the box with new genre, language, or worlds with each book. The one thing that remains true and constant among my favorite writers, even if they write in different genres, is their distinct VOICE.

What is voice in writing?

To me, voice in writing is the unique way by which we see, experience, and interpret the world as individuals.

“No great artist ever sees things as they really are. If he did, he would cease to be an artist.” Oscar Wilde


A little about me:

I grew up as an Army brat in a close-knit, bilingual family. A creative child, I loved drawing and telling stories, which I learned from listening to my maternal grandmother and mother’s wonderful stories of growing up in Ponce, Puerto Rico. As a child, I loved reading Nancy Drew mysteries, books about great adventures on the high seas, life in the Caribbean, historical fiction, and family sagas. I was an inquisitive child with a good case of being nosy! I always eavesdropped on my elders’ conversations, much to my mother’s dismay. In my teens, I developed a love of classic Puerto Rican literature, thanks to my Spanish teacher, Señora Esteves. La Charca by Manuel Zeno Gandía (considered by many to be the first Puerto Rican novel), Julia Burgos’ poetry, and El Jíbaro by Dr. Manuel A. Alonso, are still among my favorites. My sister and I love extreme weather, and by the age of 18, I’d lived in four countries, each time trying to make my way in a new world. My favorite sanctuary was my grandparent’s farm in the mountains of Puerto Rico. I married an Army officer and had two children by Caesarian section, which led to an interest in becoming a doula, an assistant to a midwife. After my mother’s death in 1992, we moved to Europe with our two children, where we lived for thirteen years. My reading interests as an adult remain the same and include memoir and women’s fiction. I believe all little girls need a heroine who looks like them. As a young mother, I began researching my family tree on both sides of the family–Polish-Russian, Italian-Canarian (Canary Island), and Puerto Rican, which led to a love of family history and oral storytelling.

So what does any of that have to do with finding voice in writing?

The writing of my debut historical novel, A Decent Woman, was filtered through my life experiences, cultural background, and interests, which in turn produced my writing voice. I wrote an historical novel/family saga set in turn of the century Puerto Rico, based on my grandmother’s lifelong friendship with her Afro-Caribbean midwife. My protagonist, Ana Belén, is a strong, courageous, Afro-Cuban heroine, an unassuming champion of women’s rights, and a midwife who must battle male doctors entering the birthing room for the first time. She is a mystical and spiritual woman, who explores the idea of decency in early Puerto Rican society through her life experiences as a black, poor, illiterate woman–an outsider. What about my fascination with extreme weather? A baby is born during a hurricane in the first chapter. My love for my grandparent’s farm? The farm in Jayuya is the setting of the sequel to A Decent Woman, titled Mistress of Coffee.

Final Book Cover A Decent WomanMy voice, the essence of who I am, if you will, my soul and spirit are on the pages. You might have grown up in a bilingual family, you might be an Army brat like me, and you might even be a Puerto Rican Army brat, but we won’t see the world in the same way. Each of us is unique.

How does a writer find his or her unique writing voice?

Here are a few thoughts and questions that might be helpful in finding your voice:

READ. Think about why you like certain books.

What genres appeal to you and why?

Examine why you like a particular author. Is it the story content, the author’s style of writing, or the book’s settings and locales?

What did you like to do or read as a kid?

Do you like happy endings or not? Why is that?

WRITE. Get to know yourself through writing blog posts, short stories and/or writing in a journal.

How would you describe yourself in a couple of words?

What themes seem to show up in your writing?

What’s important to you, what frustrates you about people and the world, and what can you not abide? Write about that.

OBSERVE. Observe the world around you. Describe what you see, hear, and touch.

You are unique. Only you can tell your story. Read to broaden your horizons, and improve your writing skills by reading authors you admire, but don’t copy them–it might come off as fake–be yourself. Try on new ‘skins’, but use your unique ‘skin’ when you write. Your voice will always be the perfect fit.

About Eleanor Parker Sapia

Puerto Rican-born novelist, Eleanor Parker Sapia, was raised in the United States, Puerto Rico, and Europe. Eleanor’s work as a counselor, alternative health practitioner, a Spanish language social worker, and a refugee case worker inspire her stories. When Eleanor is not writing, she facilitates creativity groups, and is making plans to walk El Camino de Santiago de Compostela a second time.

A Decent Woman is her debut historical novel, set in turn of the century Puerto Rico. The book was selected as 2015 July Las Comadres & Friends Latino Book Club, Book of the Month. Eleanor is the mother of two adult children and she currently lives in West Virginia.

A DECENT WOMAN available now on Amazon


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Eleanor Parker Sapia

Puerto Rican-born, Eleanor Parker Sapia is the author of the award-winning, historical novel, A DECENT WOMAN, published by Sixth Street River Press. The book is a Finalist in the 2016 International Latino Book Award with Latino Literacy Now, and was Book of the Month with Las Comadres and Friends National Latino Book Club. She is featured in the award-winning anthology, Latino Authors and Their Muses, edited by Mayra Calvani. Eleanor is currently working on her second book, The Laments, set in 1927 Puerto Rico. Eleanor is a writer, artist, photographer, and blogger, who is never without a pen, notebook, and her camera. Her wonderful adult children are doing wonderful things in the world, which allows Eleanor the blessing of writing full time. Please visit Eleanor at her website:

2 thoughts on “Thoughts on Finding Your Unique Writing Voice”

  1. Congrats on finding the perfect pair of jeans – you’re definitely not the only one with that problem! Being a fan of Dickens, themes of coincidence, odd twists and turns and nutty characters dominate my writing!

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